LOVEGURU...da love specialist..!!

hi mates,

Recently we've loads of users asking to have a loveguru on forum who can sort out any sort of trouble with your boy friend or girl friend or even friend.

since its made love is complicated so far. Some of us might experiencing too much pain by getting depressed for their love affair. Love should stands for joy and happiness rather not to get the life into hell. so let it feel like heaven. make it happen right now.

we're contemplating the idea having loveguru on forum. so if any of you right there think of urself expertise and eligible enough plz feel free to give us a buzz and do let us know yes your the person who we need to have to help out lovers.

cristin recommended ladyjo as a loveguru. is there any one else who is interested. but its not all upto only ur interest. your supposed to be a real loverguru and ur required to show ur talent helping users you gotta be right there to help users anytime. infact i myself think of me loveguru lolz. anywayz i will keep helping our authorised loveguru.

cheers lovers!!!

First answer my question before applin for this post ...


WHAT IS LOVE ?

ask-vinay wrote:First answer my question before applin for this post ...


WHAT IS LOVE ?

lol

i also dont know much about this. furthe more i gave less visit in that section

. . for those of you who are lucky enough to have your loved one with you it's a great idea. I don't know ladyjo very much. Lets see how she goes about it. . If not then cristin is a good runner up. She's good at giving advice and i'm sure she's very capable at her mature age to give the correct advice. . . Although my personal love guru's are cry and admin. . Lol

ask-vinay wrote:First answer my question before applin for this post ...


WHAT IS LOVE ?

love is nothing but a stupid attraction lolz

anyway I know vinay is not satisfied with ma answer so applicants should satisfy him.

@ stimmi i know cristin could be one of em but u urself have got loads of experiences on love i think almost u've get ur PHD done on love lolz whether its positive or negative. beside ur a psychology student so you could apply

ladijo whera u?

Yeah i may be a psychology student but i think my bad experience on love might cloud any better judgement that i could have on this issue 'love'.Admin if anything i think i'll need the most advice

Lmao guys...Im gone away on meeting and already so much has happend, uhm i strongly believe ladyjo can do a fantastic job, plus i dnt think i could handle both jobs.....

Lady is in germany so she will reply a bit latter on because of time difference. Anyway lets wait and c.

Fundamentally, I believe that love is a transformative process. It is a metamorphosis of self from a position of happy independence to a realization that life can be much more. A realization that all the experiences of life -- the dizzying highs and tortuous lows -- can be accentuated when you are able to share them with that special someone. A realization that one was somehow incomplete by oneself, and that another is needed to fully appreciate the human condition.

And when does this transformative process occur? Not right away -- I personally do not believe in the "love at first sight" theory -- that would be more properly designated "lust". Rather, it is a feeling that develops over time, starting as feelings of trust and happiness in spending time with a special someone. With time, the heart and mind subconsciously place ideas that this person is much more special than others, and that being with the person physically and metaphysically is desired for a more complete life. In brief, love is something passive that creeps up on oneself, and is not an active process (i.e., the incorrect concept of "pursuing love" in today's society). As Nathaniel Hawthorne said, "Happiness is as a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

May the butterflies of love continue to touch humanity, thus proving that the so-called "outdated" concepts in which I believe are not dead.


Still I want to know what is LOVE ??? :dd:

im finaly here....so sry2 keep u all waitin.....so u wnna kno wat love is.....wel vinay i cudnt have put it betta myself...

thre is no such thing as love at first sight .....thats lust.u could very easily be confused by love and infactuation....
infactuation usually occurs in youth n ur so carried away in unreasoned passion.....in short.
wheras love....have u ever found urself smiling at absolutely nothing,for a reason not known 2others...u want that1 person with u all the time,ur so comfortabl with them u can tell them anything,u dont have2keep any secrets.when ur with that person u dnt notic much of ur surroundins.u find urself wonderin wer they r,how they r n what they're doing,if they're thinkin bout u aswell.evry song,book n movie reminds of them in sum way.u wud 2 almost nethn2 hav dat person with u.he or she is ur best frend.they're the 1 person u dnt hav2 dress up4 coz u kno u alrady hav them.love makes u irrational,u dont think straight coz evry decision umake has2 lead2 them in sumway...love is knowin wen2say sumthn,wen 2 shutup or wen2 hold their hand.knowin wat they're thinkin without rely havin2say it.love makes u vulnerabl n fragil,but it make u mor than just happy n content.love is bein abl2trust that person with ur life n riskin ur life 4 dat person if u had2.havin a witness2 ur life so u dnt go unnoticd.love is not jus physical....if at all...but it is filled with desire n passion.love doesnt appear over night,it takes time.dat significant other becomes the most important thn in ur life,they became ur life or atleast a major part of it

so yes i agree with vinays xplanation of love....but it isnt sumthn u can realy xplain....u define it with xperienc.

thanx4 the reccommendation,im honoured....keep me posted on what u guys want

ladyjo wrote:so yes i agree with vinays xplanation of love....but it isnt sumthn u can realy xplain....u define it with xperienc.

Ladyjo is write. Alot of ppl ask what is love?

Answer: u cant explain it

hey em 1st time hear the word of love .....hahahaha ....lolz


love is the attraction between relations or felling of two person.......................

ladyjo wrote:thre is no such thing as love at first sight .....thats lust.u could very easily be confused by love and infactuation....
infactuation usually occurs in youth n ur so carried away in unreasoned passion.....in short.
wheras love....have u ever found urself smiling at absolutely nothing,for a reason not known 2others...u want that1 person with u all the time,ur so comfortabl with them u can tell them anything,u dont have2keep any secrets.when ur with that person u dnt notic much of ur surroundins.u find urself wonderin wer they r,how they r n what they're doing,if they're thinkin bout u aswell.evry song,book n movie reminds of them in sum way.u wud 2 almost nethn2 hav dat person with u.he or she is ur best frend.they're the 1 person u dnt hav2 dress up4 coz u kno u alrady hav them.love makes u irrational,u dont think straight coz evry decision umake has2 lead2 them in sumway...love is knowin wen2say sumthn,wen 2 shutup or wen2 hold their hand.knowin wat they're thinkin without rely havin2say it.love makes u vulnerabl n fragil,but it make u mor than just happy n content.love is bein abl2trust that person with ur life n riskin ur life 4 dat person if u had2.havin a witness2 ur life so u dnt go unnoticd.love is not jus physical....if at all...but it is filled with desire n passion.love doesnt appear over night,it takes time.dat significant other becomes the most important thn in ur life,they became ur life or atleast a major part of it

so yes i agree with vinays xplanation of love....but it isnt sumthn u can realy xplain....u define it with xperienc.

thanx4 the reccommendation,im honoured....keep me posted on what u guys want

Welcome Ladyjo

Love in first sight is LUST How can you say that mam...As far i know all love stories start from this .. You mean all lovers r lusters .. You mean to say that Love is only physical attraction ???

I don't know more bout LOVE ... But i have seen it in many movies especially in Hindi movies "Pehli nazar me pyaar"(Love @ first sight)..

Again I don't know what is love and for me "No time 4 Love"

Anyways I want to let you know what is love with help of some Quotes:

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"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." - Sophocles

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"Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." - Erica Jong

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"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end."

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"Loves makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place."

Lastly I want to say that Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person.

I have a question ....

well i've gone through each n every one's valuable estimation n belief bout love....hmm...i think its most weird topic..it will take u through the argument. we all can never be of the same opinion and mind in this issue.

if any one doeznt believe in love better not to explain whatever love is. its not all about hypothesis and definition given by others. rather Its all upto ur belief and ur own feeling of love. Try not to judge the love by others' feelings n explanation. be urself. listen to ur heart. try to feel what is love itself. if you never love any one ur the unlucky one who better not to define what is love.

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some “Love is friendship set on fire” for others “Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it”. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.

if you still want me to answer what is love. I seem to say my answer can never satisfy you. feel it urself when you'll be in love ( if ur lucky enuff). you definitely will get the answer trust me.

so try to find love in ur real life with ur beloved one rather not to find it in definition.


well thats all was my words. now i wana put a loveguru's view bout love. just scroll down :

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said “Love all”

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But “love” is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

anyway ladyjo has got the confidence which i like and appreciate. vinay i like ur statement as well. we will instate her on loveguru post. I request all to see how she goes. at least she can have a trial period.

mates topic hasnt locked yet. still u can keep on going.

i thank u 4 ur consideration....lust.....love......i neva said lust cant turn in2 love....but u hav2 know usm1 2 love some1.but a point u brought up admin is dat love is DIFFERENT 4 evry1.....dats y i rely hate the Q what is love....u hav2look inside urself4the anser coz love is describe by xperienc...not words.but love is intense n i think its sonething evry1 shud hav da opotunity2xperienc
thanx4 givin me a chanc....il do my best not2disapoint u n help wer i can

Thank Admin & thanks Ladyjo...

Very intresting topic...